Am I being Too Sensitive? or Is He Being Too Insensitive?

I can't believe we had another fight over this whole issue of who is being too insensitive and who is being insensitive. Arrgghh! This is too much for me! With all the work I have to do and all the pressure I get from my course and well.. other things..I don't think I can handle it anymore. I think i need to stop and look at it frm a distance for a bit, don't you?